There seems to be no safe way out of such situations."To the men: Don't take it personally if we aren't interested...The no itself was hard for him to take, because he really did care for this girl, but what happened is that this girl went back and told all of her friends and they began to review all of his strengths and weaknesses.By the time it was over not only did all of her friends know, but their friends knew and their friends' brothers knew that he asked, she said no, and that he was not tall enough for the average girl to really honestly consider.She was behind a curtain, having a good massage, when she heard a voice in English asking one of the staff, “what kind of massage do you provide here?” The staff member responded “pressure point massage.” The English voice asked “what other kinds of massage?His chances with this girl were dead as was any future chances with any of her friends or most girls he knew within the area code.
Hopefully women will send the equivalent back.’ ‘I don’t know.
Dear men of the online dating world – nobody wants to see your penis. While a minority of women like them and another minority see them as a form of digital abuse (online flashing if you will) the majority of us just roll our eyes and ask ‘why, why, WHY do you continue to do this? ‘But it also cuts to the chase without having to explain in any words that they’re after sex rather than a relationship.
Or, rather, nobody wants to see a picture of your erect penis suddenly appear on their Whatsapp when you’ve never so much as been on a date. ‘It’s effectively a swift route to market and there’s no confusion for the girl they are sending it to. What clearer way to show intent than a pic of their “best friend”?
Before telling you about the mistakes expats often make when dating a Dutch man, here’s a story about an incident in Amsterdam.
A female friend and sometimes running partner of the shallow man, was having a massage in a place in the Rivierenbuurt.