There's a difference between making something a priority and having an obsession.
No one wants to be the Captain Ahab of the dating world.2.
It's too late for me, but maybe you can learn from what I wish I knew then.1.
Finding a romantic partner is only one of many goals you can have at once.
I have a nervous personality, so I need a girl who can tell me to relax.
In fact, I know exactly what I want in a life partner. When I started seeing my husband, aka the first guy I wasn't embarrassed to tell my therapist about, I was gobsmacked to realize how much I hadn't known about dating before then.I didn't have very much fun at it, which is depressing since I didn't pair up until my 30s.Read More » Marriage takes commitment and your time.It is not easy to simply deciding to settle down and it will all be okay.