Having dated a divorced guy, I can speak from experience of what to do and the mistakes to avoid if you do decide to go down this path with a divorced guy, especially if they have kids.DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.
They will never be as hopeful, as positive, or as big of dreamers as the man that’s never married.
And then, he rejected her in the ultimate way, by divorcing her. Something they thought they were 110% certain about, they turned out to be wrong about. There’s a seriousness that divorcees inevitably carry.
The possibilities of reasons they need to get in touch are endless.
Psychotherapist Pandora Mac Lean-Hoover, who's divorced, also suggests finding a therapist who knows firsthand how vulnerable you are.
"Therapists who haven't experienced divorce often create false hope," in regards to recovering quickly.