It may seem old-fashioned, but it wasn’t long ago that the families of some Chinese girls actually forbade their daughters to talk to, never mind get involved with, a man not of their own ethnicity.It is obvious that this thinking has changed in many Chinese families."Date an Asian chick" has become akin to "Go skydiving" or "Live in New York" in the veritable white guy bucket list.Of course, dating an Asian girl is very different from dating your typical Nancy or Betty.Now, Chinese women are dating and marrying foreign men in ever greater numbers.Which leads us to ask why Chinese girls are so interested in foreign men?I met this Korean girl in the elevator going up to a rooftop club here in New York City, found out she was here to meet a friend. She said no, I introduced myself to her friend, and my friend to her.
The next day, I get a call from my buddy from CA saying that the Korean girl I met sent him a long message along the lines of: “Hey hope all is well, blah blah blah…oh by the way, I never do this, but I met your friend Johnny at the rooftop bar in NY and wanted to talk to him more, but my ex boyfriend was there and it was kind of weird.Some Tips for Western Men Interested in Dating a Chinese Girl Chinese etiquette is highly nuanced and it can be easy to offend a Chinese girl or her family unintentionally.So what should a Western man know about dating a Chinese woman? So I'm neurotic about some aspect of that, whether it's my weight or the particular paleness of my skin or my big feet or what have you. Don't cross me when I'm mad because something like the kimchi slap will happen to you. But I'll expect you to say it right if we start dating each other. My mom and other family members paid really close attention to my appearance. Not gonna lie, there's a tiny dork-nerd in every Asian.19. I blame the Asian-language TV soaps I was weaned on. Which is why I always ask for hot sauce and have an emergency bottle of Tabasco in every purse.21. So strike the phrase "Asian persuasion" from your vocabulary.