In fact, you shouldn't settle; you're doing yourself a real injustice. But with time, it's easy to separate the men from the boys. Grown men take pride in surrounding themselves with an environment that supports an active and healthy lifestyle.
If you're going to be with a man then be with a grown-ass man. In case you need a little extra help, here's a checklist for you: Not a frat house. If he's too lazy to keep his place clean then he's definitely too lazy for the more important things in life.
They also forget they are hurting the women they date, as they tend to forget there is no store where a woman can go and buy back the lost time she spent with him.
The truth is that you don't have to settle for whatever boy comes your way. Although, to be fair, it can be hard to tell the difference – especially at first glance. Nor does it need to be extravagantly furnished, but you should be able to distinguish the floor from the rest of the place.
No straight guy will ever add a male stranger to his list. He’s such a modern guy you tend to ignore his fashion magazines sitting on the coffee table.
But when you notice he dresses kinda funny, or not manly enough, you could be in for a big surprise. Most gay men can be spotted miles away if you have the nose for them.
Posted by Naomi Epps in Black Love Advice How do you feel about Denzel Washington or Will Smith? I know you love to see them together; it’s just that you’re almost always left with a bit of a sour taste in your mouth at the end of each magazine-reading session, right?
Ahh, the thrills you feel when you see them and the secret crush you have had on them since you can remember…You have to admit it, girl. It’s only normal to be longing for someone as funny, smart, sexy and charming as these two talented men.